A private check for two
Know if your relationship can work.
Without showing your hand.
Flagged privately compares each of you and your partner's potential dealbreakers or incompatibilities, to check if you're wasting time while also allowing you to keep your secrets private. You learn one thing: clear to proceed, or red-flagged. Nothing else is shared, unless you both choose to.
Start a session
You'll get a 6-digit PIN to give your partner.
- 01
Your reality
Privately mark what's true about you: habits, plans, history.
- 02
Dealbreakers
Choose up to ten things you truly couldn't accept in a partner.
- 03
One signal
Green if you're all-clear. Red if it's no-go. No details, no judgment.
- 04
Optional reveal
Only if you both request it, see what got flagged. Then delete it all.
Before you begin
Ground rules
- Answer honestly. The result is only as useful as what you put in.
- Your answers are never shown to your partner. Only a single "clear" or "incompatible" result is shared.
- How your data is handled. Answers are held temporarily in the server's memory. They are not end-to-end encrypted. They are deleted when the session ends or after 1 hour, whichever comes first. Nothing is saved to a database or to this browser/app.
- Reveal is mutual only. Incompatible responses are only shown if you both request it.
- Either of you can end it. Ending deletes the session for both people immediately.
Pass 1 of 2
What's true about you
Check everything that describes you; past, present, or future. Leave the rest. Your partner never sees this list.
Pass 2 of 2
What you can't accept
Choose up to ten. Be selective: these should be true dealbreakers, not preferences.
Your answers are in.
Waiting for your partner to finish. This page updates on its own.
Result
Mutual reveal
Where you clashed
You both agreed to see this. It's up to you to talk about it, accept it, or walk away.
Session ended.
Everything from this session has been released from the server. Nothing was kept on this device.